Wednesday, June 6, 2012

Step Out-of-the-Wedding Gown-Box...


 (Amsale Little White Dress)

 


 (Melissa Sweet)

And Step into a Hemline Raised to Ballet, Tea, Knee or Slightly Above-the-Knee lengths.   But let's Keep it Tasteful and Always Elegant, whether you're marrying for the first time or renewing your vows.


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I love the Melissa Sweet wedding dress above.  It has a vintage feel I absolutely adore.



Warning, you may start craving a slice of wedding cake after gazing at this white dress with pink flowers on the dress form above.  Well, it should.  It's a cake dress designed by those talented cake designers at the Pink Cake Box.  

It's the perfect example of an out-of-the-wedding gown-box, wedding dress like the ones in our opening scene.  Can't you see them all with a white, ivory or soft pink bird cage veil or fascinator? 

Fascinator - A fascinator is a headpiece, a style of millinery.  It's a woman's alternative to a hat for formal attire.  It's usually a large hair decoration on a clip with elaborate trimmings and decoration like a formal hat.  And it can incorporate a base to make it a miniature hat.  Wikipedia

 I certainly can see a bird cage veil or fascinator with any of the short wedding dresses previously shown.  That's the great thing about stepping out-of-the-wedding-shop-box.  You can add any color you want to a dress.  Wedding shop owners and maybe a few wedding planners are probably frowning at that last statement.  But hey, it's your wedding ...you can add color if you want to!



Popular Hat Designer and Owner of the Granville Milliery Company--Amy Hamilton--designed the next fascinator called the "French Twist."

 (Granville Millinery Company - French Twist)


 A Hat Above the Rest...
Short wedding dresses could even be worn with a stylish hat accentuated with flowers and feathers like the Royal Romance design below, also created by Hamilton.

  







Miracles and Blessings ...Welcome to iCafe Woman Moderne ...Kiki, here.   Once again, we're starting June off with our annual wedding text-webisode.  

This time, we're showing you how to:  Step Out-of-the-Wedding Gown-Box!  I'm happy to say I'll be celebrating the big 20th wedding anniversary this July 11.  Hooray!  

What's our secret?  It's really not a secret, but I'll tell you just the same.  It's quite simple ...the couple that prays and worship together has a strong foundation to stay together.   Without it, you'll feel like you're walking on quick sand during the challenging times.  

But first, a quick message from our Sponsor.

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Now Back to iCafe Woman Moderne's Step Out-of-the-Wedding Gown-Box...

KIKI
Welcome back!  But we're not just talking about stepping out-of-the-wedding gown-box.  

Fellas ...freeze.  Don't you dare back out of that door.  Today's text-webisode also have some handsome surprises to help you step out of your tuxedo box. 

So of course I asked four of our iCafe Woman Moderne Divas to drag ...I mean ... cordially invite their hubbies and fiances to join the fun.  

Two are renewing their vows this Summer and Fall.  While the other two are first-time brides and grooms and want to crank up the unique quotient for their wedding. 

Let's check out what's going on in the great room?  Shall We? 


FADE IN:

INT./ ICAFE WOMAN MODERNE - DAY
The camera zooms in on our grooms-to-be and hubbies who can't stop squirming on the sectional.  They're looking a tad uncomfortable.  Maybe it's because they're wearing white sleep masks emblazoned with  "groom" and "groom again" in black letters. 

KIKI
Our first bride-to-be, MARIAH, 25 - a Dental Hygienist -- models her selected wedding dress.  It's a replica of the short, pink wedding dress with matching veil introduced in the movie, The Vow.   

Worn by Co-Star Rachel McAdams and co-starring Channing Tatum, this made-for-movie dress was designed by out-of-the-box Fashion Designer Betsey Johnson .




MARIAH
I'm loving this pink dress.  I found it on ..."  

She glances at fiance, TONY, 27 - Architect.

MARIAH (CONT'D.)
"I found it on ...it's my secret until the wedding day dot com."

TONY(27 - Architect)
Why am I here if I can't see the dress? 
Wait a minute, did you say pink?  
You can't wear a pink wedding gown.
Someone I like to call, Mom ... and your 
future mother-in-law will freak. You're wearing white. 

NATE (28 - Licensed Carpenter)
So, you're cool with it being short?

TONY
Short!  Oh man, Mariah ...what are you doing to me here. You can't wear a short dress on our wedding day. Sure it's in a garden, but a short dress won't cut it with Mom or me.  I always saw my bride in a white gown that looks like marshmallow fluff.

MARIAH
Tulle?  You're insane if you think I'm wearing tulle.  Even though that tulle dress in the opening scene was cute.  Forget it, I'm not wearing anything long that looks like marshmallow fluff.  It's so not happening.

TONY
You're not wearing a short pink dress. 

He snatches off his mask as his future bride screams bloody murder.  He stares at her in shock, speechless.  He walks over to her mesmerized and smiling.

TONY
This is your wedding dress.  You're not wearing anything else.  I'm not kidding.  Baby, you're so beautiful.  I can't wait to marry you.

ICAFE WOMAN MODERNE DIVAS O.S. 
(off-screen-behind the open-concept kitchen)
(in unison)
Awww!

Mariah and Tony passionately kiss.

BART 
(49 - ELECTRICAL ENGINEER)
(laughing)
Hey Tony, I'm pretty sure they can find you a dress like that so the two of you can match. Won't that be nice, Tonya?

The guys laugh.   

TONY
That's okay, Bart Simpson.  I'm borrowing your Pee Wee Herman plaid tuxedo with the high-water pants you wore at your prom and wedding. 


(Pee Wee's Big Adventure)

Bart and Tony crack up, pounding hands. 

Bart's wife, JENNY, 49 - Dietician - (they're celebrating their 25th wedding anniversary in August) enters the great room next.

KIKI
Jenny's in a shorter version of the pink chiffon gown you're seeing on your screen that was featured on Martha Stewart Weddings.



JENNY (49 - DIETICIAN)
FYI ...Bart's suit was checkered, and Grand-mom let out the hem for our wedding.
(to Bart) 

Don't even think about taking off that mask.  We've got another 25 years to go.

Tony and the ladies check out the long, pink dress on the monitors, as OLIVIA, 28, - Owner of Sweet Olivia's Bake Shop -- joins them in her grandmother's tea length Fifties prom dress.  



OLIVIA
Jenny, your dress looks identical to the Martha Stewart one,  only shorter. 

JENNY
Thanks, my sewing skills definitely came in handy.

MARIAH
Don't tell me you made your own wedding dress.  What can't you do?  You're this amazing gourmet chef ... you make your own soap ... you can even build a deck and tile a bathroom.  You're like this Martha Stewart with Ty Pennington's skills.

OLIVIA
Wow, it looks like a professional did it.

JENNY
A professional did.   I've been sewing since I could sing the alphabet.  My parents were expecting a James, but Daddy still taught me everything he knew.

OLIVIA
Can you help me with mine?  I'd like to raise the neckline and make it a keyhole and update the flowers.   NATE ...hands off that blindfold.

NATE
I was yawning.

TONY
Sure you were, dude.  

JENNY
I'll help you, Liv ...that's not a problem.  Your mother's dress was made for you.

KIKI
Daria, are you ready?

DANNY
I saw her crocheting the dang thing.

DARIA 
It's not the same ...leave the mask on! 

She yells from the changing area O.S. (off-screen)

 (100layercake.com)

KIKI
(to the camera)
Daria was inspired to make this dress by the woman in the photo, on your screen.  She's with her husband and baby at their mountaintop elopement.  She sewed the green dress underneath from a vintage pattern and crocheted the doilies for the overlay in three weeks.

Daria walks out in a coral halter vintage dress with ivory crocheted doilies and white silk gardenias in her hair.

DARIA
It took me seven weeks.

OLIVIA
It's stunning.

DARIA
It'll be perfect for our vow renewal in Bermuda.

DANNY
You mean Barbados.

DARIA
Why would we be going to Barbados 
when we honeymooned in Bermuda?
(to the ladies)
We're celebrating our 35th, poor fella.  He's losing it.

DANNY
(laughing)
Bermuda's already booked.  I'm just making sure you're not slipping, woman. 

KIKI
Okay, ladies ...it's the men's turn.

ALL MEN
Our turn?

Kiki faces the camera, smiling. 

KIKI
That's right, it's your turn to look as handsome as our favorite stars from yesterday. The famous Las Vegas Rat Pack. 

 


A photo of the Rat Pack members -- Peter Lawford, Dean Martin, Sammy Davis Jr. and Frank Sinatra -- appears on the monitor behind her. 

 KIKI CONT'D.
It's nice to have friends in high fashion places.  My friend, Desmond ...a men's wear buyer at Nordstrom's ...brought over some suits in your sizes and accessories.   Now it's your turn to look fierce.  He's in the back waiting for you.  Go on now.

NATE
Had I known, I wouldn't have eaten that cheese steak and cheese fries before I came here.

BART
You're forgetting those two brownies and Latte you scoffed down once you got here.

NATE
(to Bart)
I guess we're going to ignore that fancy French sandwich and peach milk shake you had.  (snickering)

The guys laugh.  Nate and Bart pat their stomachs, as the ladies shake their heads.

KIKI
The two who didn't eat cheese steaks and brownies ...try on the suits.  The rest ... you'll model the accessories.  

She hands the ladies blindfolds.  

KIKI
Sorry, Divas. We're saving the surprise for your special days.  

Action in iCafe Woman Moderne FREEZES just as the women start to protest.  

ZOOMS IN on a laptop placed on a coffee table in front of the sectional.

SFX:  SOUND OF KNOCKING ON GLASS.

CLOSE-UP of a smiling Kiki inside the laptop.  

KIKI
Over here ...don't you love technology? At a blink, I can freeze that scene and their complaints.

She gestures toward the frozen images of the women surrounding her face inside the laptop.

KIKI
And we can come back to this.

She snaps her fingers.

CUT TO GREAT ROOM
The men leave. Kiki hands the ladies "Bride-to-Be" and "Bride Again" white sleep masks.  They begrudgingly wear them, but don't utter a word.

MOMENTS LATER... 

Kiki is seated on the sectional with the ladies.

KIKI
Welcome back to iCafe Woman Moderne 's virtual cafe inside an Art Moderne home.  Today's New Millennium men can step out-of-the-tuxedo-box too.  Especially, if they're having a destination, beach or garden weddings as you're all doing. 

She leaves the sectional and stands by the open-concept kitchen where the men will emerge.

KIKI CONT'D.
Ladies, I'll describe what they're wearing, so you're not completely in the dark.  But like you, they'll have the final say.  Are we in agreement?  Or do we need a time out again.

The web camera pans their unhappy faces, nodding.

CUT-TO GREAT ROOM
Tony enters dressed-to-impress.

KIKI 
Here's Tony in a blue seersucker suit sporting a navy polka-dot bow tie.




KIKI
He's Rico Suave in a Stetson's Brewster Straw Panama Fedora.  Yes, ladies ...straw hats are appropriate for outdoor weddings.  I didn't think we had time for all four to model the suits, but we do.  So here they are.





KIKI
Nate joins us in a lavender version of the seersucker.  It would look great on groomsmen if the bridesmaids wore lavender dresses.




 KIKI
Nate's also wearing a Stetson Latte Milan Fedora hat with it.  Ladies, I know you're dying to speak.  But please hold your comments and leave the masks on.  




BART
I like this.

Bart enters the great room.

KIKI
Bart's liking his two-button light tan suit and ladybug silk tie.  I understand this design has sentimental meaning and looks fantastic.



JENNY
You could've warn me you were going to make me cry today.

Jenny wipes tears from her cheeks.

JENNY CONT'D.
My first gift from him ...five days after we met ...was a ladybug necklace.  

She touches the ladybug necklace she's wearing.  

JENNY
He found out from my sister that I loved everything ladybug.  That's when I fell in love with him.  Except for our wedding day, I always wear it.

The ladies stop her from staggering over to him. 



KIKI
Bart's also carrying a red and black polka dot tie that looks like a lady bug convention.  



BART 
I'm wearing the first lady bug tie.   It's sharp.  



KIKI
And finally,  Dapper Danny looks stylish in this natural three-button linen suit accented with a coral retro mod tie.  It perfectly matches your coral crocheted dress, Daria.  He's also sporting a Kangol Swirl Pork Pie hat in brown and tan.




DARIA
A Swirl Pork Pie!  It sounds like something I would like eating ...not something I would like to see him wear.

DANNY
Now we're talking.  I'm digging everything about this look.  

SHOPPING TIPS FOR GROOMS-TO-BE 
AND GROOMS AGAIN

KIKI
Guys, here are tips to remember from grooms advice.com when shopping for your special day.  

1.  A well-tailored suit will make you look a million times better than a suit pulled off the rack at Sears.

2.  When choosing your shirts and suits make sure that the shoulder seams fall on your shoulders.

3.  A collar on a dress shirt should fit snugly around your neck, not too tight though.  If you can fit more than one finger between you and your collar, that neck size is not the right one for you.

4.  If you're getting married on a beach and you're going with the golf shirt style, the shirt should end just below your waist.

5.  Go to a higher end rental store if you're renting.  Go to a store that has stock you can try on.  Never order sight unseen.

KIKI
Ladies, let's give a hand for your sweeties and the good sports they are. Now guys head on back and change.  

A FEW MORE MINUTES LATER, the masks are removed and the guys are back.

 KIKI
I hope you're enjoying today's text-webisode.  We're definitely ending on a sweet note, literally.  Now, for those of you who want to step out-of-the-wedding-cake-box. Here are a few alternatives we found on Martha Stewart Weddings that Olivia, the owner of Sweet Olivia's Bake Shop, made for us to sample.

Olivia
Thanks, Kiki.  Here are several alternatives or additions to traditional wedding cakes.

1. Martha Stewart's Bundt Wedding Cakes



2. Brownie Treats


3. Marbled Masterpiece.


4. Mini Cupcakes in Lace Cupcake Towers.

(Martha Stewart Weddings)


TO BE CONTINUED...

FADE TO BLACK.

 


















  




Saturday, May 19, 2012

Say it isn't So... Shabby Chic...Filing for Bankruptcy Protection?








Rachel Ashell's Shabby Chic 

(Shabby Chic's Bloomsbury Sectional)


Some blame the loss of sales and diminished popularity of Shabby Chic to the rise of the Mid-Century Modern design craze.  Well, as a lover of both styles, I wouldn't declare Shabby Chic as over, or name the design trend, the Rubik's Cube of the Nineties.  I also wouldn't call Mid-Century Modern... a craze.  Neither design trend are going anywhere, anytime soon if my iCafe Woman Moderne Divas and I have anything to say about it.  Thanks to you, we do.

But first a message from our sponsor... 
From eternity to eternity, I am God.  
No one can oppose what I do.
Isaiah 43:13

Miracles and Blessings... Gigi here... thanks for stopping by iCafe Woman Moderne, our virtual cafe for inter-generational women and girls.  But fellas, the door is always open for you too.  I know it's been more than a minute since we last hit the cyber-waves.  Outside, the trees were barren.  

Now, the flowers are blooming... our cyber patrons can't get enough of our chilled delights in a glass and our Spring wraps are bursting with exciting new ingredients.


Welcome to our text webisode:  Say it isn't So... It Isn't So!  Shabby Chic... We Say, Welcome Back!  Our three divas... Television Producer Tempest (54), Fashion Photographer Baldwin (30) and Model, Actress, Cartoonist Cocoe Dominique (15)... can't wait to tell you why Shabby Chic is back and here to stay.  They're not only our regulars, they're also related.  

Tempest and Baldwin are sisters, and Cocoe is their very talented, precocious niece and fraternal twin to Christiane Kennedy.  Stare at them close, they almost look identical.  Unfortunately, Christiane couldn't join us, she had a prior engagement.  

 (New York City)
 
We're so glad they escaped the Big Apple and stopped by, which they do at the start of every new season.  Unfortunately, their busy schedules delayed them at the start of Spring, but they're making up for lost time.  Our humble region is where another sister, a few great aunts, uncles, more nieces and cousins live.  So of course we've claimed them as iCafe Woman Moderne divas.  

Shall we get started?

Don't worry Ms. Ashwell... your diehard 
fans and iCafe Woman Moderne divas have your home decor back.


(Apartment Therapy)

EXT. ICAFE WOMAN MODERNE - AFTERNOON
Two men and two women over forty enter our virtual cafe housed inside a Mid-Century Modern home, (Art Moderne) carrying Happy Birthday balloons with four twenty-something young women.


INT. GREAT ROOM - CONTINUOUS
The forty-something women and young adults are pleasantly surprised when they enter the great room. 

On the television monitors a photo of the great room's usual decor appears.  The authentic Mid-Century Modern sectional is now replaced by live footage of a beautiful white slip-covered sectional in a Mid-Century Modern design with Shabby Chic and Asian accessories on the bookshelves, chairs and coffee table. 


  
GIGI
(to the patrons) 
Now you see it, now you don't.  You're in the right place.  We've switched out our sectional.  But guess what?(turns to web camera)It's not just any white, slip-covered sectional.  It's a Shabby Chic SoHo slip-covered sectional in a modern design.  This is our Spring and Summer decor for the cafe.  We'll switch back in the Fall.  So yes, Contemporary, Mid-Century Modern, Southwestern, Asian and Traditional home design fans... Shabby Chic pieces can fit in all of these designs.  My iCafe Woman Moderne divas will show you how by using three Shabby Chic room styles. 



Gigi joins Tempest, Baldwin and Cocoe seated on the white sectional.   They're all wearing perfect little pink dresses in honor of May's National Breast Cancer Awareness month.  Their Perfect Little Pink Dresses (PLBDs) were supplied by Nordstrom's.



BALDWIN
As far as I'm concerned, Shabby Chic never left the building.   But now it's easier to find her, and fantastic on the pocketbook.  Who doesn't know where there's a Target?  That's one of the places you'll find Rachel Ashwell's Simply Shabby Chic. (she faces camera) I'm sure there's a store near where you live.


TEMPEST
Right, girl... a lot of people don't know that her collection is at Target until they see the Simply Shabby Chic aisle.  I just picked up this cute vanity for my play niece's Sweet Sixteen birthday party.  It's also easy to find on your smart phone.



I guess your real niece will be expecting
 hers on her 16th birthday in July.  





TEMPEST
And you'll put it right next to the French Provincial antique vanity  you've inherited from your great grandmother.  (facing camera) Girlfriend here, doesn't have your typical fifteen-year-old's bedroom.   It's authentically French Shabby Chic.  As you can see from her pink Sixties baby doll dress, 
my favorite niece loves Mod Design and Vintage.


COCOE
My twin better not hear you call me your favorite. (winking) Okay, so you'll be sending that cute Target vanity to my dressing room at the set of my new series coming out in the Fall on NBC.

A MID-CENTURY MODERN/CONTEMPORARY AND SHABBY CHIC ROOM 



BALDWIN

Are we done decorating your dressing room... nice plug by the way.  I'm sure our Web viewers want to see how Shabby Chic can go Mid-Century Modern.  Here's how we're designing our first room with Shabby Chic furniture and accessories in a modern/contemporary style.  We're taking Shabby Chic's SoHo sectional and chair, the Portobella Chair and 1/2 (purple chair), and the tufted Lilliput Cube Ottoman that looks like something Marcia and Jan Brady would watch TV on.  


  

TEMPEST
How would you know, the show was cancelled
by the time you showed up.

BALDWIN
Their reruns were on forever.

COCOE
I've got their DVD compilations.  I can recite most of their lines, especially the one where Marcia got that huge zit.   Anyway, Shabby Chic's Light Feather Chandelier looks like something Rhoda Morgenstern would have hanging in her loft above Mary Richards' sweet apartment.  I have those DVDs too.




ECLECTIC MEETS SHABBY CHIC

 GIGI
I'm impressed.  But some people might need a little more convincing that Shabby Chic and modern can work together.  Check out this kitchen.  The proof is in the pudding!


GIGI CONT'D.
It's Shabby Chic, Urban, Rustic Modern 
with Traditional touches in a room where family magic happens.



Television monitors throughout iCafe Woman Moderne now show a traditional living room with Shabby Chic touches.



COCOE
There are really no design rules when it comes to your personal style.  Why can't you mix Modern, Traditional and Asian in a
Shabby Chic bowl?  I read online that Rachel Ashwell defined Shabby Chic in the late Eighties as this:  ...the balance of elegant things with old and worn, shiny accessories with painted wooden tables and soft throw rugs with old rough lace. silkroadcollection.com)


ASIAN DESIGN MEETS SHABBY CHIC



COCOE
These Oriental chairs could totally be Shabby Chic. They could work with this traditional Tuscany Belvedere dining table.

 
 TEMPEST 
Some designer pros may say, no way.  But that's what makes Shabby Chic so special... no design rules.  I'm so proud of you grasshopper.  Let's add two white slip-covered padded chairs, tea-stained antique lace place mats, a milk pale with pink hydrangeas and a larger version of the red cabinet 
on your screen to store dishes.  Watson, I think we just designed an Asian designed room in a Shabby Chic style.  


Gigi
Check out this living room. It's designed with an Asian motif, but has those couches that say comfortable, casual and elegant, which seems to be the Shabby Chic motto. (frowning) Hmm ...I think we stand corrected.  


BALDWIN
Did we make a mistake?

GIGI
 We did.  In order for Shabby Chic to be welcomed back, it would have to be gone.  We can see from the rooms and styles we visited that Shabby Chic never left the building.  Sure, something shiny and different captured our eye for a minute, while Rachel Ashwell waited patiently for our second gaze.   But that didn't stop her from doing what she does best, creating beautiful 
Shabby Chic home decor. 

Gigi eyes their empty glasses and cups, as the divas nod at what she just said.  The web camera follows her as she leaves the divas and head for the open concept kitchen where they often have food demos.  She addresses the viewers at the coffee bar, as a barrista finishes a smoothy and hands it to her.


GIGI CONT'D 
It's true, you don't know that you've missed something until it disappears for a while.  Or should I say, until your attention takes a side trip. 

 I now see that my love for Mid-Century Modern and Asian design blends well with my recaptured love for Shabby Chic.   Not so shabby, huh?