Friday, May 20, 2011

Graduate in Style... Seize Your Moment to Shine!




You know that old childhood rhyme, April showers bring beautiful May flowers.  But the month of May also brings those hard-earned college commencements with high school, middle and elementary  graduations just around the May pole in June.

 (Amazon.com)

Ah, graduation day... finally parents/guardians/spouses get to celebrate what their financial seeds, sacrifices and emotional support have sown, when their loved ones strut down the commencement aisle to Pomp & Circumstance in their dignified caps and gowns.  It's a pity they don't have their own commencement ceremonies for attaining their Bachelor's Degree in Sacrifices and Financial Support.  

(Weston College)

In a way, they do.  Many exhausted students feel graduation ceremonies are more for the family than for them.   They're just glad the midnight cramming, never-ending finals and study groups are over.  Kaput!   Finally, they can cut loose... relish their accomplishments and have some fun... at least during graduation month.  

That is, before they start pounding the cracked pavement for work.  Ugh!  Sorry I had to whip off your rose-colored designer glasses.  You can wear them for a few more weeks.

Sure, the common way to celebrate this important passage into adulthood or a new career is to throw a huge graduation bash.  Did you notice that I said common, but that's exactly what you don't want, right?  You're a far cry from being common.  
You want different, unique... a celebration that defines you.  



Miracles and Blessings, Lisa here, along with Kiki.  Thank goodness she took pity on this Johnetta-come-lately and let me host today's text-webisode:  Graduate in Style!  Seize Your Moment!  And that's exactly what I plan to do.  Seize the moment... by finding a unique way to celebrate my college graduation.  Which would be nice, seeing that I moved the tassel over last Monday.  

Did you just graduate too?  And like me, you've postponed celebrating because frankly, you want something different, not right out of the standard graduation gift box.  But what exactly?  That's the million dollar question.  



Your time to soak the recent college grad card is ticking away.  Soon you'll have to get down to the serious adult business, commonly known as employment, if you haven't already snared a job or launched a business.  In this economy, it's a safe bet you're still at the sending out resumes or writing the business plan stage.


Kiki's helping me cyber-storm ideas to make my graduation celebration unique and memorable.  How can it not be?  I'm off to a great start.  I'm in my favorite Eames chair at my favorite virtual cafe -- iCafe Woman Moderne -- drinking today's special, Mango Iced Sweet Tea and enjoying Barefoot Contessa's recipe for Lobster Macaroni-n-Cheese.   

In my head, I've transported in time to the Friends Central Perk set-- and at any moment Phoebe will walk through that fake door with her guitar in hand and start singing off-key... "Shame on You For Waiting Until the Last Minute..." graduation blues.



We narrowed the graduation celebration ideas down to four.

1.  Create a Two-day Japanese Food Feast
Dine at a Japanese Steakhouse e.g. Kobe Japanese Steakhouse, Benihana, Tokyo Hibachi Steakhouse & Sushi Bar... and Enjoy a Sushi-making Class.

 (Sushi Poster)

Visit a Japanese Steakhouse -- teppanyaki style japanese cooking -- on a Friday night and spend Saturday night learning how to roll sushiHosomaki, Uramaki, Futomaki, Temaki, Nigiri... on a dinner and a lesson package.

(Tokyo Hibachi Steakhouse & Sushi Bar)

If you've never been to a Hibachi Grill, then you're in for a delectable night of food and artistry.  You and your group of recent grads will sit around a huge grill as a Hibachi Master entertain and cook your steak, seafood and veggies right before your eyes.  

PHILADELPHIA

Chef Kitchen
Although he’s not Japanese, Chef Poon knows his stuff. And he’s enthusiastic about teaching, hosting one or two sessions a month on the art of rolling. This hands-on class covers all the basics, from how to properly season sushi rice to selecting the right knife. Classes include a full meal, take-home sushi, and guaranteed entertainment from Poon.
Next class: May 25th, 6 p.m. $95. 1010 Cherry Street, 2nd floor, 215-782-2258;
josephpoon.com

NEW YORK CIT, MIAMI AND CHICAGO

Roll Your Own - New Sushi Classes

A gift idea for the sushi fanatic in your life: a Sushi & Sake 101 session at a SushiSamba restaurant in New York City, Miami or Chicago. The two-hour-long classes teach small groups of students everything from how to buy ultrafresh fish and make rolls to how to pair sake like cloudy nigori and acidic junmai with different kinds of sushi ($70; sushisamba.com).


SAN FRANCISCO

Mari's Catering:  Food with Heart and Art
We’ll teach you the techniques for successful sushi making, great healthy side dishes and soups that are not just Miso soup with Tofu. Not only do you learn how to make it, you’ll learn Japanese tradition as well as knowledge of thousands of years of healthy living - the history of the dish, nutritious values, and the reason for using certain ingredients.

Contact Mari's Catering at:  415-341-5468.
Classes are held at Nombe Restaurant at 2491 Mission St., SF CA 94110.


2.  Plan a Roaming Graduation Party
Last Sunday's Desperate Housewives' Season Finale showed us how it's done.  It works best if the party stages are within close proximity. 

 (Desperate Housewives)

a) Start with appetizers and non-alcoholic beverages, like exotic lemonade, teas or smoothies at the first party locale.  
b)Enjoy several kinds of salad at the second party location.  Note:  It could just be the girls for the first and second courses.
c)Let the guys join you for dinner at the third party location.
d)Dessert and a DJ Dance Party with cocktails and coffee served at the final party place.

3. Spend a Day Go-Karting and Playing Video Games
Yes, that's right... be a kid for a day.  You've worked hard for the past four or more years... you deserve to be silly.



V17
87 New Jersey 17 Maywood, NJ 07607
201-994-1200
You drive around the 2,000 foot track, reaching speeds up to 30 mph. You come across hairpin turns, banked corners and chicanes. The British Bowman Storm high performance race karts, with Asmo electric motors, are the finest in the world. (according to promotion)


Each racer is given a computer printout at the end of the race showing all the race data graphically. Drivers must be above 57” tall and not taller than 78”. Lower speed races up to 22 mph are available for anyone above 57” and without a full license.

4. Celebrate Your Funny Bone By Transforming Your Home Into a Comedy Club for One Night Only.
Everyone's always telling you how funny you are.  Why not test out the comedy waters while celebrating your accomplishments.  At the very least, you can put your college toils in your act.  Who knows... it may open a new door. 

52 Totally Unique Theme PartiesGetting from College to Career: 90 Things to Do Before You Join the Real WorldGraduation Lawn Banner 63in x 15in


Wilton Graduation Cupcake StandGraduation Antenna BallPrincess Grad Graduation Tiara
 

Friday, May 13, 2011

2011 Prom Hair Groove

(Olivia Wilde)

Retro, Vintage, Old School, Mid-Century Modern... whatever you call old has become new again and hot in fashion, home design and now hair... specifically prom hair.  

This makes sense to us iCafe Girl Moderne Divas... arm deep in the thick of everything prom leading up to this "One Night Only" event.  You can't tell me, the glamorous ponytail above doesn't remind you of our girl Barbie.   She's over 50 but still awesome!

1959 Vintage Barbie 


Since we're talking ponytails, here's a few more glam ponytails for your prom night consideration.

(Rihanna)

(Reese Witherspoon)


This ponytail Reese Witherspoon sported at the 2011 Oscars looks like it was taken right off of Barbie's head.  Cute!

Oh yeah... for our 2011 prom season, the up-do has taken a back seat to the fifties and sixties ponytail, but with a New Millennium twist.

(Miley Cyrus)

If Barbie isn't exactly your style and you want an edgier look, try this latest trend  in ponytail chic:  "the messy ponytail," straight off the fashion catwalk... very America's Next Top Model.

(Messy Ponytail) (Click on link for instructions on how-to)



And Divas, if you still haven't decided to take the prom plunge because you don't have a fun-worthy date.  I have one question for you?  Aren't you fun all by yourself?  If your school allows it, go solo especially if you know other kids breaking the tradition strings.  

I'm JoJo, short for Joshanna.... and I send you Miracles and Blessings from my Aunt Kiki, who handed this text-webisode over to us iCafe Girl Moderne Divas... going crazy trying to figure out how to wear our hair on prom night.  

JoJo
I'm hanging out at this cool virtual cafe with my girls... Tori, Marisol and Emlen... cyber-surfing, hair-storming... scoffing down personal pizzas... paninis... and sipping Mango/Banana Smoothies.  Our proms are back-to-back starting tonight.... your time... and winding down on June 3... no pressure.... right.  (We pre-recorded this text-webisode eight days ago.) 




JoJo 
Me and Tori picked vintage gowns for our senior proms... and we're staying with the retro vibe for our do.'   Let me change that, our gowns sort of picked us.  But they work.  We'll show you a prom  gown/dress similar to what we're wearing, but not "the" dress.

Marisol
Go on and say it, Jo.  We don't want anybody copying our dresses.  We're not discovering a twin that night.  You're up, girl.


JoJo
Right, like some girl will find our inherited vintage gowns.  I'm okay if she's wearing a replica, as long as it's in a different color and material.  My Aunt Diane first wore my gown in the seventies when she competed in the Teen Hemisphere Pageant at my age.  It's inspired by the 1940s Hollywood Glam era, and similar to the one below.  But mine has more detailing... and it's in a different color... very Dorothy Dandridge.


(Dorothy Dandridge)

(Dorothea's Closet)

JoJo
Here's another one that's similar.




Tori
You're a better woman than me.  So what are you thinking for your hair?


JoJo
I'm thinking Mary Tyler Moore Seventies flip.  My mom and Nana loved that show.   The flip's heyday was in the fifties and sixties... but started dying out in the seventies, until Mary Richards made it chic again.  A lot of the Motown girl singing groups wore a version of the flip.  It's making a strong comeback again, but with a modern girl's twist.  

Today's flip has First Lady Michelle Obama's layers and less upturn... 

(First Lady Michelle Obama and Mary Tyler Moore)

Supermodel and Philanthopist Liya Kebede's blunt ends... 

(Liya Kebede)

Actress Katie Holme's wispy chin length... or longer with spiraled ends, you'll see in a sec.  


(Katie Holmes Choppy Flip Bob)




JoJo
Speaking of girl groups, I'm digging the Supremes flips and bobs.  That's it... I'm going with Mary Wilson's long bob.  I'll have the bangs swept back like hers, but with a blinged out headband.

(The Supremes)

Emlen
So cute... that'll look great on you.


Tori
My turn!  I'm wearing my Nana Johnson's fifties lace cocktail dress. It stops mid leg and has an off-the-shoulder portrait neckline and the same peek-a-boo blush lining.  But what am I going to do with my hair?

(Dorothea's Closet)

Marisol
I'd so wear that dress.  Check out the forties style Kourtney Kardashian is wearing.  You'd turn heads for sure.  You're so doing it.






Tori
Will you slow your roll please.  Can I take it in, first.  It's really cute and it's definitely vintage.  I love it!  I've got a little confession.  I'm actually deciding on two of Nana Johnson's cocktail dresses.  This one's less formal, but still awesome.  Don't give me that look, I can't help it grandmom was a fashionista and a diva.


(Dorothea's Closet)

JoJo
In recent years, the up-sweep prom hair styles have taken a back seat to the half up/half down, low and side buns, hair rolls, loose french braiding and twists.


Head-turning waves have also made a prom comeback.


(Anne Hathaway)

Tori
Oooh... look at this one.  I love that Bridgitte Bardot half up and half down style.  

(Brigitte Bardot)

Tori
Actress Jessica Alba and Supermodel Liya show us how it's done New Millennium style.

(Jessica Alba)


 (Liya Kebede)


Tori
I've made my decision between the two dresses and hairstyles.


Emlen
You're wearing the lace with the forties hair.


JoJo
She's not telling.


Tori
That's for me to know and you to find out when you're taking pictures of me on prom night. 

Emlen
You're mean.


Marisol
Forget you... it's my turn.  Can you say, hot-cha-cha!  You know mommie likes her salsa and merengue.  If this dress doesn't say salsa and merengue... I don't know what does.



Tori
I thought you weren't showing your actual dress.

Marisol
They can try and copy, but they won't have my fabulosity.  I'm not scared.  Gabrielle Union's sassy side ponytail is so me, but I won't hear the end of it from Mama Maria if I don't show off my natural curls.

(Selena Gomez)

Marisol
I'm going with the side curls.  I'll sprinkle it with bling and wear a gardenia, hopefully a real one.  Done!

Emlen
I just want something simple and classic with a retro vibe.  I'm wearing a Chinese Cheongsam dress.  This is the one I'm wearing.  I think I need to wear a bun.


JoJo
It's beautiful.  You're not wearing a bun... check out this 1940s hair roll and soft curls.  Either one is perfect for you.  I can see you wearing the updated version below.

(Forties Roll)


Emlen
It is... I love it!

JoJo
Well, there you have it.  We're all ready for prom night. I hope you are.  Just make sure you be true to yourself and have fun.  It's your night!